Some people may seem to help and save the situation, but at times, when we let emotion carry us and we assume the evaluation part, we can fail because the same people can be the source of making the situation worse.
Help does not exclude evaluation
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PermalinkOf course, in fact often you have to evaluate and , frequently, the person itself has to be given feedback for change. What are you facing?
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