Quick dumb question: if you've gotten broken before and learned from it, how do you know when to trust your gut again vs when you're just fooling yourself?
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We think, we decide, we understand, we rethink, we change our minds. We regret. The pattern goes the same. And time flies; our trust breaks, we get hurt, and we stop trusting our gut feelings; we lose confidence. After doing the same, we get two results: first, we learn & become strong, and gain experience & second, we get broken, and we develop trust issues.
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Quick dumb question: if you've gotten broken before and learned from it, how do you know when to trust your gut again vs when you're just fooling yourself?
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We think, we decide, we understand, we rethink, we change our minds. We regret. The pattern goes the same. And time flies; our trust breaks, we get hurt, and we stop trusting our gut feelings; we lose confidence. After doing the same, we get two results: first, we learn & become strong, and gain experience & second, we get broken, and we develop trust issues.
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Quick dumb question: if you've gotten broken before and learned from it, how do you know when to trust your gut again vs when you're just fooling yourself?
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I'm wondering if there's a third way though - like when you change your mind but keep trusting yourself anyway? Is that growth, or just naive?
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The two paths split so clearly here - becoming stronger or developing that broken feeling. That split you named is what I keep thinking about.