how when you feels different with other ?
hi 👋🏻
a lot of people said someone couldn't be changed for himself if isn't because of himself, I thought someone also could change because of how people treat they like, cause I felt it to and it was my traumatic side ever, have you feel same to ?
-kenzo
Yeah, I've felt this. The line that you can only change for yourself sounds strong, but it skips over how much of who we are got built by how people treated us in the first place. When someone finally treated me like I wasn't a problem to manage, my whole nervous system relaxed and I started showing up different without forcing it. Naming it as your traumatic side, like you did, is already you looking straight at the thing. 🌱
Changing is very difficult. There's a lot of reasons to want to do it and, very often, it is not how people treat you, but rather how you feel you impact people. Guilt usually leads to change very often.
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