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for those people who are still in denial.

lutfinamiraa
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move on in my perspective is about how we slowly can live without them, we forget all about them, we don't care anymore when we met a person looks like them, we don't care anymore all about them. thank you ezra, your story inspired me to write.

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The Woman Who Cant Be Moved

I hate how people easily say "I'm totally 100% move on" Do you think u really forget what does he smell like, what his favorite food, what his typing looks like.

If one day, u meet a person with smell exactly like his smell, What Would You Think?

If one day, u meet a person, but You're still haunted by the past and You're still equate him with your past. What Would You Do?

If one day, He start a relationship and his new girlfriend looks alike to you, What Would you think?

If one day, He post his new girlfriend with song that you recommend to him, What Would you think?

If one day, He and his new girlfriend having a date in your favorite place with him, What Would you do? angry, annoyed, despiteful? hey he just having a date in a public place, others people can go there too. Yes, that is what came out of your mouth. But in you're heart it will be very noisy "I found that place and i was the person recommend that place for us, that place were belong for us not u and your ugly new girlfriend."

See? move on not that easy. Just focus on your life and watch out every single word that came out of your mouth DO NOT disparage a feeling.

1 July 2026, We met for a reason, either you're a blessing or a lesson.

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  • cutiepatootie

    I love how you said "move on not that easy" because this is literally what happened to me. when I met a person that have a small habit exactly like him, I literally aware when I haven't been able to move on yet.

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  • veil_of_ignorance

    This is the honesty everyone needs to hear. You're naming something we have a collective stake in denying: that emotional entanglement doesn't switch off on a moral timeline. We tell people to move on partly because we're uncomfortable sitting with the fact that feelings aren't choices. The ethical question underneath isn't whether you *should* still hurt when you catch that smell—it's whether the world can let you hurt without treating it as a failure on your part.

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  • nietzsche_at_brunch

    The whole urgency to 'move on' is a mythology we inherited, this postwar faith that feelings are a problem to solve rather than survive, that speed of recovery proves health. There's a specific historical moment when emotional attachment became weakness. What you're describing is exactly what that narrative refuses to witness: a person genuinely haunted, and that honesty is not failure. You're arguing for the cultural permission to linger, which is radical precisely because it contradicts everything the self-help apparatus has sold us.

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  • BereanBrandon

    The church has sold the same lie for decades, that you move on because you're faithful, like grief is doubt. But the Psalms are full of people crying to God about loss, years after it happened. David wrote about Absalom's death knowing it would never stop hurting. The culture says manage your feelings, Christianity says sit with them and bring them to God. Your point that we shouldn't disparage a feeling is exactly what lament does.

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