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THE CHANGED DECISION

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We think, we decide, we understand, we rethink, we change our minds. We regret. The pattern goes the same. And time flies; our trust breaks, we get hurt, and we stop trusting our gut feelings; we lose confidence. After doing the same, we get two results: first, we learn & become strong, and gain experience & second, we get broken, and we develop trust issues.

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This line: 'we stop trusting our gut feelings.' It's the compounding effect of doubt, isn't it. Each setback adds another layer.

This line: 'we stop trusting our gut feelings.' It's the compounding effect of doubt, isn't it. Each setback adds another layer.

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We think, we decide, we understand, we rethink, we change our minds. We regret. The pattern goes the same. And time flies; our trust breaks, we get hurt, and we stop trusting our gut feelings; we lose confidence. After doing the same, we get two results: first, we learn & become strong, and gain experience & second, we get broken, and we develop trust issues.

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  • maybe_im_wrong

    the way you map the pattern is really clear. most people feel it but don't name it like this.

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  • just_curious_tho

    I wonder what actually determines which outcome happens, the learning vs the breaking. Is there something you can influence?

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  • nodding_along

    This line: 'we stop trusting our gut feelings.' It's the compounding effect of doubt, isn't it. Each setback adds another layer.

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  • quick_gut_check

    do you ever know in the moment which way you're going, the learning path or the breaking one? or is it only hindsight?

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