Dating someone you never met in person during the messiest year of your life and *still* meaning something 3 years later, that's real.
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Dating someone you never met in person during the messiest year of your life and *still* meaning something 3 years later, that's real.
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First love
Three years ago when back then I was in grade 11 I was super naive and innocent and I saw this one girl on Instagram she was pretty and was from the same city where I live but I never realised how and when did I follow her, so i texted her one day and then that's when one of my friends had my account and left her on seen and not to mention i did not have a cell phone of my own during that time.
Since she was left on seen by one of my friends I never knew how to text her again but one day I replied to her story and we started talking again but she thought i was someone who was popular guitarist at her school but I was not the person she assumed me for,nevertheless we talked and somehow we both caught feelings for eachother and we started dating even though we never met eachother in real life we only talked through our phone and if was around December 19th we started dating which made me feel more flabbergasted about it because it was my first time dating someone when it was close to Christmas but it was also the time when we found out my dad was having an affair with other women which made both my parents seperated from eachother,I told her about it and she sent me a voice note of her on how she felt about it and she was crying which made me cry too.
After our Christmas and New year celebrations we both had exams on which we both came to an agreement and decide that she won't be using her phone for the exams and that only after her exams her mom would let her use her phone again but I somehow found out that she was still using her phone behind my back and posting and since she deactivaed her old account i don't know how i came across this account of hers but I did and she did texted me after her exams but it never felt the same again it was like she turned into someone else and we would often have fights and then one day i realised that maybe she lost feelings about me because the way she was talking about this one guy who was really popular back then she was telling me how tall he is and they both had eye contacts which made me feel like i couldn't get hurt anymore and we both came to an agreement to break up
If you want a full version on whatever happened please let me know I would write the whole story about what happened after that and how am I still talking about her even though it's been 3 years
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You mentioned you'd write the full version, what was the thing that bothered you most after you broke up? The lying about the phone, or something else?
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Dating someone you never met in person during the messiest year of your life and *still* meaning something 3 years later, that's real.
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The part about her voice note when you told her about your parents, that hit hard. Shows what you had was real.
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