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Love Dilemma

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Love Dilemma

How to revolutionize one's life with the unlimited freedom online

Chapter 7: The Revolution

Well, my dearest friends, there are certain points, that stimulate your thoughts, and make you understand, why exactly the path you took got deviated, after a particular point of time! The same happened, as I reread the lines in Zen's letter before burning it. And it had quotes from some Paulo Coelho, who wrote a book called "The Alchemist".I just went through those lines again: " When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it"😉 Well, I loved it at that time, and there was nothing suspicious in it!Yes, I too agree to it, if you really really want something, the obstacles in your path are just too insignificant, or maybe you don't mind getting hurt, in the rush of reaching your dreams..But there are still more quotes which I searched on internet related to thus author.

And it went like, " The secret of life is to fall 7 times and to get up 8 times! And another one, " The fear of suffering is worse than suffering itself".

Well, I just felt like this author was just having quotes the quotes that I really wanted! I mean, meeting up with false guys many times, do not mean that you would necessarily have a problem in the taste or luck you have with guys. And the fear of suffering I had, made me enter into this trauma of being in a relationship, and if I never thought of having a relation, the problem would be easily solved! No commitments, no hurt filled messages, no wait for anyone's calls..Lesser the expectations, lesser the pain,lesser the dreams, lesser the number of people get into your path, trying to stop you!

Anyways, the trauma made me have a revolutionized thought about life! You do not have to follow others guidelines to be happy.And the way you move forward, should not be affected by the fear of criticism..and even if it does, moving backward and taking a diversion,avoiding the people whomyou hate to meet, could also be a solution.

Yes, Mike is a person I hate to meet and that does not mean that I am messging to get him with me..But this is cutting ties just before leaving! You make the person regret for doing something bad to you..Unless he gets that he was wrong, he could repeat it again. Plus avoiding him does not make him correct himself! But the culture of having multiple relations has to be stopped, before he marries someone..He has to be devoted to his girl right?

Hence, I used the messages, to defame him through his relatives, I mean his would-be's relatives. And the same with his relative, I sent them messages sent from the girlfriend. Now, the track has to be cleared, and there goes the pressure to stop messaging me from both sides, which should create a void and misunderstanding between them, but that could also limit their freedom of messaging other friends and going out with them for a time, just to avoid defamation! Yes, this is exactly the point.The revolution in freedom, that these guys are enjoying...This is the real culprit. I got you guys to get going with a faithful and loyal relationship only if I teach them to get out of these unlimited freedom online.To attain this goal, more research has to be done.Right?

Well, since Nicky is awake and wants me playing with her, I got to check how my game proceeds.Till then see you!! Well, I really hope everyone learns how important it is to be loyal in all senses in relations, if life has to go uncomplicated, like the relation between me and Nicky! I guess animals are better in this, than humans..they know how to love in a pure way!😻😻😻

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  • Jorg

    I was with you for the first half. The reflections about fear, expectations, and not letting other people's opinions control your life are relatable, and The Alchemist has inspired a lot of people in that way.

    But the part where you describe intentionally trying to create misunderstandings, damage someone's reputation through their relatives, or manipulate their relationship isn't "teaching loyalty"—it's revenge. Even if someone treated you badly, trying to control their future relationships isn't likely to make them a better person; it's more likely to hurt innocent people.

    The healthiest revolution is usually reclaiming your own freedom, not taking away someone else's. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is cut ties, heal, and let people live with the consequences of their own actions. Otherwise they're still controlling your life, just in a different way.

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