Is loneliness a choice or a punishment?
Some seek it. Others fear it. And most lie about which group they belong to.
Some seek it. Others fear it. And most lie about which group they belong to.
Is loneliness a choice or a punishment?
Some seek it. Others fear it. And most lie about which group they belong to.
How can I break the loop?
You built boxes in your head. This is normal, this isn't. And then someone shows up who doesn't fit any of them. Your brain doesn't fear them because they're dangerous — it fears them because their existence proves other paths work too.
The beautiful, enigmatic Northeast, the Seven Sisters and their adopted sibling Sikkim, with their hills and valleys and cool forests. The many tribes, the cuisine, and of course, the lovely Northeasterners, fetishized by mainland Indians.
Have you ever felt like your achievements were just pure luck, not the result of your actual hard work? Or perhaps you’ve felt like you weren’t smart enough, talented enough, or "cool" enough compared to others?
Love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship; many relationships fail even when the partners love each other, as there are many factors that contribute to a relationship's end.
How can people say that they know me when they haven't even discovered themselves fully
It is actually more painful to break up from a 'situationship' than from a long-term relationship. Sometimes, it takes us longer to move on, even longer than the time we spent with that person.
The worst things to solve are the ones you see every day. When someone steps out of the comfort zone where you've settled, it means one thing: it's possible. And that's terrifying. So you judge instead. And in that judgment, all the anxiety disappears—the anxiety that would force you to face the truth: that what you live in are just habits. Habits that can change.