The startup guy will tell you he is basically a co-founder. He has 0.05 percent. The founder described this on the offer call as "could be worth millions someday," in the warm tone of a man who has personally read the cap table and knows that after three more rounds and a 1.5x liquidation preference, 0.05 percent of the exit is enough to buy a used Subaru, if the exit happens, which it will not. He is counting on you not running the math. You do not run the math. You frame the offer letter.
Then there is family. They told him on day one, we are a family here, which is a beautiful sentiment from an org with a four-month runway. Families do not have a four-month runway. Families do not lay off your cousin to extend it, which is what happened in March, to Dave, who was family right up until the board deck needed a leaner Q2. The guy still says it. We are a family. He says it the way Dave used to.
The hats. He wears many hats, which is the founder's phrase for paying one underpaid salary to a person doing five jobs. He is the sole engineer, the on-call, the support queue, the guy who set up the Notion page that is, technically, the health insurance, and the one who fixed the kombucha tap when it foamed. The kombucha tap is load-bearing. It and the ping-pong table are what you get instead of the eleven thousand dollars you are under market, and at the all-hands the founder will stand in front of a slide that says we are disrupting commercial dishwasher leasing and the room will clap like he said cancer.
The Slack message comes at 11:52pm. It is a thumbs-up emoji on something, and the thumbs-up back is due by 7am, because boundaries are for companies that are not changing the world, and this one is changing the world, of mid-size dishwasher financing.
Here is the part I will not roast. Early-stage can be the best two years of an engineering life. The ownership is real, the speed is real, you touch every layer, and once in a while the ticket actually hits and the Subaru ends up being a house. The clear-eyed take that bet knowing it is a bet. The guy I am describing is not taking a bet. He cashed his salary in for a feeling and a foamy tap, and the founder, who kept his own equity in real numbers, calls him family for it. Dave was family too.